I believed being 'the strong one' was leadership—until it broke me open.
Strength without softness is a mask, and dropping the cape is how life and leadership become real.
The Breaking Point That Changed Everything
I wore the cape—at work, at home, everywhere—until exhaustion, shame, and life storms stripped it away.
Do you see yourself as I did?
- played the self-appointed superhero, juggling every responsibility, fixing every problem, and denying any hint of vulnerability.
- "Always strong, always capable" was my mantra, even as the weight of expectation silently crushed me.
- The cape became a burden, stitched with late nights, forced smiles, and the relentless pressure to perform flawlessly.
- I pushed past the quiet whispers of fatigue, ignored the growing ache in my soul, and dismissed moments of self-doubt as weaknesses.
- This continued until exhaustion led to a physical collapse, and the shame of not being "enough" became a constant companion.
- A series of relentless life storms—personal and professional—finally stripped that cape away.
- It wasn't a choice; it was a violent unraveling that left me raw and exposed.
- In that breaking, I saw a profound truth: strength without softness isn't resilience, it's a rigid facade.
- True leadership and true living emerge not from an unbreakable exterior, but from the courageous integration of vulnerability and authentic self-expression.
- Dropping the cape was terrifying, but it was the essential first step towards a life, and a way of leading, that was truly real.
"You don't have to shrink to fit into their mold. True leadership isn't about wearing a perfect cape; it's about leading from the messy, powerful truth of who you are."

Drop the Red Cape™ • Step Into POWER
The Cape
Performance pressure—the exhausting need to be everything to everyone while neglecting self.
POWER
Permission: Purpose, Overcome, Wellness, Empowerment, Resilience—turned into daily choices that fit who you are.
How We Work
A five-step journey from recognition to authentic leadership, designed to help you drop the performance mask and step into your true power.
01
See
Name the cape, the mental load, and the hidden rules that keep performance on loop.
02
Shift
Rewrite old stories; choose values over approval.
03
Speak
Learn boundary scripts and practice brave conversations that honor needs.
04
Support
Practice receiving and build a circle of authentic connection.
05
Stand
Lead as yourself—at work, at home, under pressure.
Why Me
Framework Creator
POWER framework and inPOWER Her™ app supporting thousands of women.
Lived Experience
Founder of inPOWER Her™ and Indiana Reentry Corporation.
Speaker & Trainer
Keynotes and workshops on human-centered leadership for organizations, and executive leaders.
Specialized Coaching
Moms and caregivers, justice-impacted women, veterans, and women in transition.
Your Next Right Step
Ready to drop the cape and step into your authentic power? Choose the path that feels right for where you are today.
The cape was never yours to wear; your authentic power was always there.
You don't need to be the strong one for everyone else—be the real one for yourself.
You don't need to be the strong one for everyone else. You need to be the real one for yourself. The world needs your authentic leadership, not your perfect performance.
Ready to come home to yourself? Your transformation starts with a single step—and I'm here to guide you through every part of the journey.
"This work is how I came home to myself—and how I guide women and teams to do the same."